Woman says the millionaire she planned to date sent her a ‘list of requirements,’ from a valid passport to no zodiac talk
Asking for too much
Going on a date can be exciting, but for one woman it became more of a task because it came with certain terms and conditions. In a TikTok video, Landry (spicygirlie0) said she was supposed to go on a date with a millionaire, but he had “a list of requirements” she needed to meet to be eligible.
Although it wasn’t officially on the list, Landry said the man expected her to sign an NDA before the date. As for the list itself, Landry said the guy expected her to be “emotionally available” but “not overly emotional,” as he apparently did “not like drama.” The man also allegedly expected her to arrive seven minutes early, explaining, “Five is suspicious. 10 is disrespectful.”
Landry said he wanted her to have her own car, since he had a driver and wouldn’t be picking her up. She also had to be “comfortable with spontaneous international travel” and hold “a passport with at least six months remaining.” According to Landry, the list asked her to order “confidently” at restaurants and to keep him off her social media until their third date, because his ex-wife’s cousin followed him.
Landry said the man expected her to hold a conversation without mentioning her zodiac sign “within the first 15 minutes.” He also apparently told her that if their date went well, Landry “may receive a second date invitation within three to five business days.”
After reading the “requirements,” Landry seemed torn about whether to go. “He has absolutely lost his mind. I am not going on a date with this guy,” she said, before wondering aloud whether she should go anyway to “see what the personality is like, because he seemed really nice.” The man’s side of the story isn’t available, and his list could not be independently verified.
“Counter offer with your own terms”
Landry’s video quickly gained traction, with thousands of viewers weighing in on whether she should go. Many shared and saved it to follow what she decided.
In the comments, people offered their opinions on what Landry should do. While some people believed Landry should go on the date (after fulfilling some prerequisites), others thought she should pass. One person said, “counter offer with your own terms.” Another wrote, “Play along and send your own list of requirements.” “A man that says he doesn’t like drama is a man that causes drama. I wouldn’t go,” one person commented.
Those who suggested Landry go on the date offered a few suggestions. Some of these were conventional; others were, well, not so much. One individual suggested that Landry simply ragebait the person. They commented, “You go on the date and do everything he told you not to do in his list.” Another remarked, “I would go and do the complete opposite of what he asks.”
While these comments were more light-hearted, some people made worrying observations about Landry’s case. They considered the man’s behavior in this case controlling and him a narcissist. One person said, “these aren’t boundaries, they’re controlling. boundaries don’t tell other people what they can and can’t do. they communicate our needs….” Another person wrote, “Do not go! He is a control freak & most likely a narcissist!”
Landry did provide an update on the issue, making two separate videos on the topic. In one, she highlighted some of the other unusual expectations he had of her; in another, she spoke about keeping a set of terms for him to follow, just as he had expected her to.
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