She Thought Her Boyfriend of 13 Years Had Unsolicited Photos of Her. Then She Found ‘Cornstars’ and Her Cousin in His iPad: ‘Please Leave’
She cut her losses instead of staying for another decade.
Mushiefaerie (@mildhippietoo), a small business owner, says she was with her boyfriend for thirteen years. But just as they were about to get married, she says she found dubious photos on his iPad.
“To make it as short as possible, I started dating him when I was fourteen, and he was 17,” Mushie explained on TikTok. She alleged that she had been psychologically abused since childhood, and the attention her boyfriend gave her made her feel attached. Six months into their relationship, Mushie says that even though her boyfriend got intimate with his friend, she still chose to stay. She knew that there were early warning signs, but she ignored them.
Whenever he got caught in a lie, Mushie claimed her boyfriend also got physical. She stated, “He would just grab me, throw me, and break property.” It resembles the signs a former prosecutor warned women to watch out for in violent men. Nevertheless, Mushie stayed because she did not have a family and had no one to talk to about the alleged abuse.
“Then of course, I paid for everything for years. He did not have a car, so I drove around everywhere,” she further alleged. But Mushie says that sometime in April 2026, she started forming a good support system. A friend of hers encouraged her to check his phone. She was initially hesitant because, as a child, an adult looked through her diaries. But Mushie felt like her boyfriend had been taking secret photos of her while she was getting dressed, which she didn’t feel comfortable with. Eventually, she decided to look through his iPad photos.
She found other abominations on his iPad
“Well, I found way more than that,” Mushie said. She alleged that his iPad, synced to his phone, also contained photos of other women. “I find thousands and thousands of pictures of dressed and undressed women—people we know, actresses, ‘cornstars,’ OF,” Mushie alleged in her follow-up video. While scrolling further, she also found photos of her cousin, whom she considers her best friend.
“Just a true pig,” she commented. Mushie confirmed that she found nonconsensual photos of her, but what she found paled in comparison to everything else on his iPad. She checked his Gmail and claimed, based on his search history, that he’s been searching for naked women for five hours a day. She further alleged that he would watch movies, pause them, and search for naked photos of random women in these films.
Then, Mushie said she looked at his ChatGPT to see what he searched. There, she claimed that he sent photos of his exes and herself and asked the chatbot which one of the women was the “sexiest.” Aside from dubious searches and AI use, Mushie said she also found multiple OnlyFans subscriptions.
To make matters worse, Mushie said that when they got engaged in Japan, her boyfriend also looked up ‘escorts.’ He also looked for other dubious sexual services in the city they were in.
The split finally came
After she confronted him about the photos and videos, she said her boyfriend went to rehab for addiction. At first, Mushie thought their relationship would survive. But instead of getting legally married, she agreed to do a spiritual ceremony with him.
But two weeks after rehab, her boyfriend allegedly started lying again and looked up “beachy pictures” on Snapchat. While on their trip for their spiritual ceremony, Mushie also alleged he started looking up ‘cornstars’ on Pinterest. When she found out in July, that’s when she decided to leave for good.
“I knew that there’s no rebuilding. I knew that my life will be miserable—the rest of my life, if I stayed with him. And I knew that there’s only so much you can do when you believe in someone’s potential,” Mushie said. She cut her losses sooner, unlike this woman whose ex-best friend stole $200,000 from her and fled to New York City.
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