NYC woman advocates for five minutes of ‘unsupervised snoop time’ for single guys, then drops crazy lore about being tricked by a man
TikTok user @maya.brunelli from NYC has a unique request in her interactions with men and is also asking for the same privilege to be extended to other women. While many might see this request as too complicated or toxic, others might consider it normal. So, what exactly is it, that has become a hot topic of discussion on TikTok, thanks to Mayar Brunelli?
Maya Brunelli wants women to be allowed five minutes of unsupervised “snoop time” on a guy’s phone who claims he’s single just to find out if he’s telling the truth. She even justifies her demands by sharing a story about a boy who, yes, you guessed it right, lied about being single despite having a girlfriend. Umm, actually change it to girlfriends. Can you believe it?
TikTok user @maya.brunelli has a story to back her demands in male interactions
As mentioned earlier, TikTok user @maya.brunelli has a very unusual demand when it comes to her interactions with men. She wants to be guaranteed at least five minutes of unsupervised snooping on a guy’s phone who claims to be single. She speaks from experience because something similar happened to her, too.
In a video she uploaded to TikTok two days ago, Maya shares the story of a time a guy tricked her into thinking he was single, even though he was in a relationship. At the start of her video, Maya mentions that on the same day she posted it, she was sitting in a coffee shop when she received a “hey girly” text, which confused her. She wondered who could have sent it since she was not dating anyone, actively trying to date anyone, or was on any dating sites. Later, she found out that the person who texted her was the girlfriend of a man she had met at a bar two weeks earlier. Maya recounts meeting this guy in the video. When she was with her friends at a bar, she was making lots of eye contact with a guy who eventually approached her. He invited Maya and her friends to a party his friend was hosting after Maya confirmed with him and his friends that he was single. However, Maya didn’t attend the event because she had her own friends’ party to go to. Sensing good chemistry with this man, she invited him to her friend’s daytime party (Darty), where they talked a lot and flirted. Maya tried to keep the conversation going, but at some point, she felt she had misread his signals and thought he had ghosted her.
Regarding the “hey girlie” text Maya received on the day she uploaded the video, from the man’s girlfriend she met two weeks ago, Maya explained in her video that the woman had seen her video about meeting the man, connected the dots, and realized it was her boyfriend. She also revealed that Maya wasn’t the only person the ex-boyfriend was talking to; there were others, some of whom he had even slept with. After learning all this, Maya apologized repeatedly to the woman and clarified that she had tried multiple times to verify the man’s relationship status with him and his friends, but they all lied. The woman didn’t blame Maya for her ex-boyfriend’s actions, and as Maya mentioned, they still follow each other on Instagram with no bad feelings.
People have a lot to say about TikTok user @maya.brunelli’s story
Maya Brunelli’s story of a man who lied to her about being single but wasn’t has gained significant momentum on TikTok. The video has already received over a million views, along with thousands of likes, shares, saves, and comments as of this writing. Many commenters appreciated how Maya handled the situation. TikTok user @melissabrozier commented, “Ok but you’re such a girls girl to ask and follow up asking if he has a girlfriend or anyone thinks that they are his girlfriend.” User @clay.bae.pottery wrote, “You’re such a good attorney! “Do you have a gf” “does he have a gf” “does anyone think they’re your gf” amazing cross examination.”
As seen, many people seemed to appreciate Maya’s storytelling style. User @huniebee83 wrote, “The “okay?” After every “paragraph” is oddly satisfying haha makes me think this is how I need information given to me.” User @majomp4 said, “you talk at a fantastic pace for my brain.”
A lot of people on dating sites lie about their relationship status
According to an article published by Kaspersky Daily on October 10, 2017, most people lie on dating sites. A survey conducted by the source found that 57 percent of respondents admit to hiding the truth on these platforms. The survey also reveals that married men are the most likely to lie, with 67% saying they deceive others about themselves on their profiles or during interactions.
Married users mainly lie to hide their marital status. Additionally, both men and women most often lie about their appearance. Overall, people tend to be dishonest about their age, social status, and similar topics.
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