Milan Woman Says Her First Boyfriend Was Ten Years Older Than Her, Then Says She Was Taking Advantage of Him: ‘I Was the One Using Him’
Innocence
A woman from Milan is talking about her first boyfriend, and her story has sparked quite a debate in the comment section.
In a video on her TikTok account, Verusha (@verushabby) mentioned that her first boyfriend was 10 years older than her. She said that when she was around 13 or 14 years old, he was about 24. As a disclaimer, acknowledged that it might seem like the guy was creepy for dating her when she was underage, but she didn’t care and claimed she was actually the one taking advantage of him.
Verusha Says She Was “Using” Her Former Boyfriend
Verusha emphasized that she was the one “using” her first boyfriend rather than the other way around. She said dating him made her the “coolest one at school who had a boyfriend with a car, who had a job, money, and lived alone.” She also mentioned that her boyfriend at the time was very kind to her and often brought her gifts, including flowers, cakes, and candy. Verusha added that her parents knew about the relationship and liked him.
Speaking of boyfriends, this woman met with hers for coffee and then broke up with him after he had just ordered for himself.
Verusha said the idea of her daughter dating someone 10 years older than her would disgust her. Going back to her story, Verusha said she eventually broke up with her first boyfriend and started dating someone else. She claimed that during this period, her first boyfriend “begged” her to get back together and promised to buy her anything she wanted. But she said she wasn’t ready to settle down because she was still a teenager.
Verusha finished her video by saying the last time she heard from her first boyfriend was many years ago and she hasn’t spoken to him since. She said she wondered about his life, including what he was doing and whether he had married, but added that she didn’t really care.
Verusha Faces Backlash From Viewers Over Her Age Gap With Her Former Boyfriend
Some people in the comments section of Verusha’s video raised concerns about the age difference between her and her first boyfriend. While some commenters alleged that her boyfriend groomed her, others argued that Verusha’s parents were wrong to approve the relationship, especially since she mentioned in her video that they knew about and liked him.
Also, read about this New York woman who left her partner despite being in a ‘healthy’ relationship.
User @cwpcakesized wrote, “oh my lord u got groomed real bad are u okay.”
@Loz666782 said, “Hopefully he’s in prison, that’s where all pedos should be, locked up away from children.”
@Tomato_tomatoe3 commented, “your parents were okay with it?”
@Mosticonicuserever remarked, “YOUR PARENTS WHAT-”
Is There an Age of Consent in the United States?
The age of consent refers to the minimum age at which an individual can legally agree to engage in sexual activity. According to Howard Lotspeich Alexander & Williams, PLLC, there is no single age of consent across the United States, as it varies by state. The firm states that the age of consent in the U.S. generally ranges from 16 to 18 years old. This means that anyone who is 15 years old or younger cannot legally consent to sexual activity.
(featured image: TikTok/@verushabby)
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