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Boston Woman Meets a Man at Home Depot and Agrees To Go Bowling. Then She Says She Almost Got Trafficked

Bowling plans turned into an alleged scary situation.

Joanne Gabriel (@joanne.gabriel) via TikTok

A Boston woman said a casual meeting at Home Depot turned into a frightening dating experience. She said she noticed several men watching her during what she believed was a bowling date. Joanne Gabriel (@joanne.gabriel) shared her account in a TikTok post. She believes the encounter may have involved a trafficking scheme.

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Gabriel’s claims have not been independently verified, but she described a series of moments she said raised concerns, from questions about her address to interactions involving a group of men at the bowling alley. Gabriel said she first met the man while shopping because she needed to purchase a power pack for a beach worship event organized through her ministry.

According to Gabriel, the man approached her and offered help. She said she found him attractive and gave him her phone number after he asked for it. “I mean, why not? Like, he’s cute; he seemed nice, like he wanted to help me out,” Gabriel said in the TikTok video.

Gabriel and the man started texting

Then Gabriel claimed the two began texting. Gabriel said she noticed what she considered a red flag when he asked where she lived shortly after they met. “I met you one time in person,” she said. “You haven’t even really asked about me as a person, but you wanna know where I live?”

Gabriel said she declined to share her address and told him she wanted to maintain that boundary. Later, she said the man invited her to go bowling. Gabriel agreed and said she prayed about whether she should attend because she did not know him well.

She said the two planned to meet at a bowling location at 5 p.m., but she arrived late after notifying him she would be about 15 minutes behind schedule. Gabriel said that when she arrived, the man was not there and later texted that he was on his way.

While waiting, Gabriel said she noticed another man repeatedly looking at her. She said the situation became more uncomfortable when several other men approached and asked whether she was waiting for someone.

Gabriel says a man offered her water

Gabriel then said the group told her someone was downstairs, where she eventually found the man she was supposed to meet. She said he greeted her, gave her flowers, and suggested they continue upstairs to bowl and play arcade games.

During the outing, Gabriel said the group of men remained in an area where they could see her and her date. She said she asked the man if he knew them, but she claimed he became defensive.

Gabriel said she became concerned after the man bought her an open cup of water and later encouraged her to drink it after they returned from playing arcade games. She said she worried that someone could have tampered with the drink, though she did not say she saw anyone alter it. She said she contacted friends, shared her location with them, and decided she wanted to leave.

Gabriel also said she watched the man interact with one of the other men before returning with bowling shoes. She interpreted the conversation as suspicious but did not provide evidence that the men knew each other or had planned a crime.

The two eventually bowled one game, Gabriel said, before she left early. She said she blocked his number afterward and left the flowers behind in the parking lot because she felt uncomfortable. “By the Grace of God, I got home safe, and everything was fine,” Gabriel said.

In her TikTok, Gabriel encouraged viewers to be cautious while dating people they do not know well and emphasized setting personal boundaries. “Don’t be naive,” she said. “Be strict on your boundaries and be very discerning.”

(Featured image: Joanne Gabriel (@joanne.gabriel))

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