Woman instantly deletes dating app after man asks, ‘what you wanna eat today?’ Then he starts miming cunnilingus: ‘Never again’
The wrong kind of butterflies
A first date should be about getting to know someone. But one woman quickly regretted meeting her date. His behavior made her so uncomfortable that she arranged an excuse to leave.
Dating can come with unpleasant surprises. Some women have suspected their dates of tampering with their drinks, while others have been threatened for refusing unwanted advances. This woman had an experience that made her delete the dating app altogether.
TikTok creator Cece (@_caceydenise) shared her experience in a video with over 778,000 views. Her date started by asking what she wanted to eat before making sexually suggestive tongue gestures. He also repeatedly pressured her to drink alcohol.
The warning signs were already there
The video begins with the man asking Cece, “What you wanna eat today?” When she admits she hasn’t looked at the menu, he starts discussing the available options.
However, the conversation soon takes an uncomfortable turn. The man makes tongue movements that appear to mimic cunnilingus. He also asks whether Cece wants wine.
When she seems uncertain, he makes a remark that leaves her confused. “I don’t wanna get you full shots cause I just met you and I wanna see where you really can go,” he tells her.
“What do you mean?” Cece responds. Rather than explaining himself, he asks about her favorite drink. She eventually makes it clear that she doesn’t want alcohol.
“I don’t think I’m gonna drink today,” she tells him. “What type of girl you?” he responds before continuing to encourage her to drink.
Cece later explained how uncomfortable the encounter had made her. “This guy creeped me out. I had my sister call me with an excuse so I could leave!! Never again,” she wrote.
She also revealed that she deleted her BlackPeopleMeet account after the experience. The interaction left viewers equally disturbed.
One commenter wrote, “i’m cringing so bad rn….the tongue??? i would’ve gathered my belongings immediately.” Another remarked, “him doing that tongue move not just once, but twice is sending me.”
Others were more concerned about his remarks involving alcohol. “I’m ordering an angel shot,” one viewer commented, referring to a discreet way some bar patrons request help when they feel unsafe.
“Really can go ?????” another questioned. Several viewers wondered whether the encounter was staged. “this has to be a skit ain’t no way,” one wrote.
Cece later posted a follow-up explaining what happened after the restaurant encounter. She revealed that a friend had introduced her to the man and that their date initially seemed to be going well.
However, she claimed his behavior changed after he stepped outside to use his vape. “He came back and was just like tripping,” she recalled.
Despite feeling uncomfortable, Cece clarified that she stayed long enough to finish her meal. She blocked him afterward, apparently hoping that would be the end of their interaction.
It wasn’t. The following night, Cece stopped at a gas station near where the man lived. She explained that her friend had told her his location, but she hadn’t thought much about stopping nearby.
That changed when she spotted him. Cece claimed he noticed her getting out of her vehicle. She quickly returned to her car, but he approached and started talking.
“Hey, how you doing?” he asked before mentioning that he had recognized her car. He then brought up their date and asked what she had been doing. Cece told him she just wanted to pump gas. “Why you ain’t call me back though?” he questioned.
The encounter was particularly uncomfortable considering she had already blocked him. What started as an awkward dinner had now turned into an unexpected confrontation at a gas station. For Cece, deleting the dating app and cutting off contact apparently hadn’t been enough to avoid seeing him again.
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