South Carolina woman found a “little RuPaul” on her husband’s Reddit account. It ended with her getting an ankle monitor
He had one more secret she didn't know about.
Ashley Dean (@ashleydeanm) from South Carolina casually shared on her social media page how her marriage got her an ankle monitor. After discovering her husband’s series of infidelities and finding a ‘RuPaul’ on her husband’s Reddit account, her marriage took the worst possible turn.
“I was married for about twelve years. Was it a good marriage? No, really, truth be told, we shouldn’t have gotten married,” Dean told TikTok. Despite their rocky marriage, she also has children with her ex. Dean alleged that abuse and cheating happened in the relationship before their divorce.
“My ex is what I would call a ‘serial cheater.’ He would cheat with multiple women,” Dean accused. Her husband allegedly cheated on her with multiple women. She alleged that at times, he would cheat on her with the same women repeatedly.
“Did I get my lick back? Of course, of course, I did,” Dean added. She confessed that she had probably cheated in return more than her ex did. Regardless, the trust in their marriage gradually deteriorated, and Dean looked into her sleeping husband’s phone.
“I don’t wait for information to come to me. I’m gonna go, and I’m gonna chase that information,” Dean said. She looked through her husband’s phone regularly and was aware of his previous infidelities. Dean added, “There has never been a time when I went through that phone, and I didn’t find what I was looking for.” She alleged that her husband used Tinder and Facebook dating. However, outside of his alleged cheating, Dean said his favorite app was Reddit.
A Reddit reveal involving a ‘RuPaul’
“Now, my ex, he was a car guy. So he would use Reddit and look up things about cars and builds,” she explained. It seemed like the last place for an affair to occur, but Dean said she found out her husband had an alternate account.
“Baby, Jesus could not prepare me for what my eyes saw,” Dean reacted. She didn’t find photos of family members and ‘cornstars’ on his device, unlike another unfortunate woman with her boyfriend of thirteen years. Instead, Dean took a long drink of her Don Julio and explained that her husband was talking to someone from North Carolina. Then, she saw a photo of a private part in the conversation. Dean commented, “It wasn’t my husband’s.”
“I saw the ‘ick,’ and I pretty much lost my mind,” Dean said. She dug deeper, entered the stranger’s number on Snapchat, and said she confirmed her husband was talking to another man. Dean continued, “This little RuPaul was on Snap.” Reeling from the revelation, Dean said she woke her husband up to explain. She alleged he ended up chasing her around the house, as if she had just uncovered a secret she wasn’t supposed to.
“I got the proof. Don’t make me post it. Baby, that was a man all day,” Dean said. Although she said the revelation didn’t hurt her, it made her question her capabilities as a partner. She said, “Was I that much of a horrible b**** to you that you gotta find love in another man?” But their marriage wouldn’t end until yet another incident during a vacation in Atlanta.
Their marriage couldn’t take yet another affair
Dean said she went through her husband’s phone again and found out he was allegedly cheating on her with a married woman. She messaged the woman on Facebook, and Dean said she was apologetic. Nevertheless, Dean contacted the woman’s husband to tell him about her affair. The man left his wife, and Dean filed for divorce.
“I’m not competing with a man. I’m not competing with a woman no more,” Dean said. Her husband initially thought she wasn’t serious about the divorce. “After that, that started a chain of events. Jail time, restraining orders, CDVs,” she continued. Dean specified that she was charged with criminal domestic violence of a high and aggravated nature, which was how she got the ankle monitor. But Dean isn’t the only one who found out about her partner’s hidden identity. Another woman, curious about her match, did a bit of digging and found out that he was living a secret double life.
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