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Joe Biden Still Hasn’t Learned to Treat Women Appropriately, and That’s a Problem

Biden's latest gaffe involves him telling a young girl, "I'll bet you're as bright as you are good looking."

Joe Biden on the red carpet for his organization It's On Us.

Former Vice President Joe Biden has come under fire after an appearance at an American Federation of Teachers’ town hall in Houston, Texas. While taking questions from the audience, Biden answered one from a 10-year-old girl, whom he told, “I’ll bet you’re as bright as you are good looking.” The crowd laughed politely, and Biden then asked the girl what her favorite subject was. When she answered “journalism,” he brought her back to meet the press corps, smiling, with his hands on her shoulders.

You can watch the entire exchange below:

This misstep is the latest in a series of gaffes where we see Biden acting inappropriately with women and girls. Despite his warm, avuncular tone, Biden has been criticized repeatedly for this kind of conduct, and seemingly refuses to make any adjustments to his behavior on the campaign trail, despite his declarations otherwise.

But we shouldn’t be surprised. While Biden has acknowledged his behavior, he continues to downplay it and refuses to apologize. In early April, Biden said, “I’m sorry I didn’t understand more … I’m not sorry for any of my intentions. I’m not sorry for anything that I have ever done. I have never been disrespectful intentionally to a man or a woman. That’s not the reputation I’ve had since I was in high school, for God’s sakes.”

Biden’s non-apology apology is frustrating, because it puts the onus on the women he’s made uncomfortable. He’s sorry not for his own actions, but for how these women reacted to them. Since then, Biden has even joked about it on stage:

This is made all the more frustrating by the fact that Biden is currently leading the pack for the Democratic primary, with an 18-point lead according to recent polling. It’s hardly surprising, as Biden is the highest profile name in the race, and his presence conjures that warm, comforting Obama-era nostalgia.

Plus, Biden’s name is always at the top of the list when pundits discuss “electability”: he’s a centrist white man who could seemingly sway possible Trump voters. But electability is a vague, nebulous concept that seems to only apply to Democratic straight white men. People seem to forget that Hillary Clinton, who was deemed unelectable and unlikable, garnered 3 million more votes than Trump (more than any white man in history), winning the popular vote, and the world’s most unelectable candidate, Donald Trump, is our current president.

Biden’s behavior may stem from generational differences, but that’s no excuse. This is the 2020 presidential election, and Democrats deserve a candidate who has the ability to adapt and learn from their mistakes. And so far, we have yet to see that from Joe Biden.

(via Washington Examiner, image: Cindy Ord/Getty Images for It’s On Us)

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Chelsea was born and raised in New Orleans, which explains her affinity for cheesy grits and Britney Spears. She currently lives in sunny Los Angeles, with her husband, son, and one poorly behaved rescue dog. She is a former roller derby girl and a black belt in Judo, so she is not to be trifled with. She loves the word “Jewess” and wishes more people used it to describe her.