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Carolina Woman Stays Back With Her Date After Dinner, Then Learns He is Attracted to Her Because She Resembles His Cousin Sister

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On April 29, 2025, TikTok user @leenpat uploaded a #storytime video that had everyone asking the same question: “He did what with who?”

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@leenpat, aka Leen, pretty much gave away what she was about to disclose about the man she was briefly seeing at the beginning of the video, but, for some reason, as she continued telling the story, things got progressively worse. She started with the banger revelation, stating that one of the guys she was once seeing was also seeing his sister. Then she proceeded to speak about the circumstances under which they met and how she learned about his dirty secret.

@leenpat speaks about a guy who was seeing his sister

As previously mentioned, on April 29, 2025, @leenpat shared a video on her TikTok account that sparked a lot of discussion. She explained that after weeks of talking to a guy on Hinge who resembled Leo from Hulu’s Tell Me Lies, she decided to go on a date with him. She also said she asked him to stay over at her place, and noted that she wouldn’t have usually made that suggestion, as she thought it wasn’t a wise move.

Leen said that when the guy, whom she calls Tony (not his real name), picked her up for the date, he was very kind and sweet, giving her flowers and being extremely considerate. She also mentioned that they went on the date and had a good time, and admitted that their conversation made her feel intellectually stimulated, which was important to her for building a relationship. She also said that she and Tony returned to her place, and Tony was already texting her, planning their next date.

Leen said that Tony suggested they meet at his place to play mini golf and grab hot dogs, which she loves. She recalls thinking before the date that somehow he would end up eating her. She doesn’t remember why she felt that way, since they had a good time on their first date, but for some reason, she had the impression that Tony might try to harm her.

Ultimately, Leen said that she went on the date with Tony, which she admits was “fun,” but something he said during dinner disturbed her. According to Leen, he told her she looked just like his cousin and then said she was hot. Afterward, Tony apparently showed her a picture of his cousin, and Leen admitted she looked identical to her. That led Leen to think, “this guy wants to fuc* his cousin.”

Leen then reveals they went to a hotel room, as Tony was in college with a roommate, and he brought out some dangerous things “for the bedroom,” which immediately turned her off. Later, she said they started pillow talking, and at one point, Tony allegedly mentioned that when he was in third grade, he and his sister became very curious. Leen said that when she asked him to explain further, he basically said that from third grade until a few years ago, he was in a full-blown relationship with his sister, “in just that one way.” Leen said that she was grossed out by the details of Tony and his sister’s “relationship,” but also became worried about her safety, since she was drunk and not in a condition to drive home. So she decided to act as his therapist.

Leen reveals that she and Tony had long discussions about his childhood and his relationship with his sister until he fell asleep. The next day, Leen mentions that as she was driving home, Tony called her, saying he had fun and wanted to get to know her better. However, she pushed back, saying he was not her type.

People on TikTok have a lot of opinions about @leenpat’s storytime

@leenpat

And this is me making it a short story ? I wanna SHAKE 2023 me #datingstorytime #scarystorytime #fyp #singlemom #hingedating #hinge #diml

♬ original sound – LEEN

Most people in the comment section of @leenpat’s video, where she talks about seeing a guy who was also seeing his sister, are grossed out by the details of the story. User @eva.docouto wrote, “the fact that the cousin thing was the least weird part of this story.” User @leah_segura said, “Girl, his willingness to tell you this many details on a second date? I fear for the details that weren’t shared.”

User @noseenvdsorry commented, “Baby, you’re a victim.” User @the.doctor.artist_jessie remarked, “Yall. This starting in 3rd grade? Pre-puberty? Sounds like trauma to me. Who was teaching them what to do?”

How frequently do Americans go on dates?

According to an article published by YouGov on February 5, 2025, most Americans rarely go on dates as often as they would like.

39% of adults, including those with spouses or partners, report that they seldom or never go on dates. Among those not in a relationship, 69% say they rarely or never date. Conversely, only 20% of people in unmarried relationships and 19% of married individuals say they rarely or never go on dates. When asked about their preferences, just 16% of Americans overall and 30% of single Americans stated they would prefer to rarely or never go on dates. Married individuals and those in non-marital relationships are significantly more likely to regularly date and to desire dating often.

(featured image: TikTok/@leenpat)

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Sanchari Ghosh is a political writer for The Mary Sue who enjoys keeping up with what's going on in the world and sometimes reminding everyone what they should be talking about. She's been around for a few years, but still gets excited whenever she disentangles a complicated story. When she's not writing, she's likely sleeping, eating, daydreaming, or just hanging out with friends. Politics is her passion, but so is an amazing nap.