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Someone Tried to DM an Ohio Woman’s Wedding Dress to Her Fiancé. It Backfired: ‘Which One of His Ex Girlfriends Is It?’

She hopes that this wedding dress spoiler would "have a bad day."

Someone Tried to DM an Ohio Woman's Wedding Dress to Her Fiancé. It Backfired ‘Which One of His Ex Girlfriends Is It’

It’s often a tradition for brides to surprise their fiancés with their wedding dresses on the special day itself, and Katie Clark (@chitinandchlorophyll) from Cleveland, Ohio, is no exception. But Clark said that before her wedding, a stranger took a photo of her wedding dress and tried spoiling it for her fiancé through Facebook Messenger.

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“This video is for the person who tried to DM my fiancé a picture of my wedding dress from a screenshot they took of a TikTok video,” Clark said in her social media post. Her wedding is set sometime in August, and it’s only a matter of time before she walks down the aisle.

“It’s a good thing you’re too stupid to know that when you DM someone you’re not friends with on Facebook, it automatically censors any DMs you send,” Clark added. According to the Messenger Help Center, social media users can control who they can accept and view messages from. Strangers on Facebook can still contact an account depending on their privacy settings. However, these messages may be relegated to the spam folder. Images sent by strangers may also be subject to privacy and nudity filters.

Clark showed the stranger’s message. It reads, “Hello, just thought you’d want to see your fiancé’s wedding dress.” Below the message was supposedly a photo of Clark’s wedding dress, automatically blurred by the app.

Who posted about her wedding dress?

“But before blocking you, I did confirm that it was a screenshot from one of my TikToks,” Clark said. She has been openly talking about her upcoming wedding online. The bride shared her wedding dress, topped off with a Juliet-cap veil. Regardless, it’s not uncommon for brides to post about their wedding dresses online. One woman even left a scathing review of a trusted NYC designer after her custom wedding dress turned out looking like a SHEIN product.

@chitinandchlorophyll

Getting serious here for a minute! I plan to leave my posts about my wedding dress up, but I can’t lie, it didn’t even cross my mind someone would do this. “Sandra”, whoever you are, I hope you know you didn’t get to me ? #bridesoftiktok #weddingdrama #weddingdress #customdress #customweddingdress

♬ original sound – Katie?bug wedding ???

“That was really my fault for being so naive to think that I could share my video with my scant amount of followers of my wedding dress and have someone not send it to my fiancé,” Clark continued. She revealed that the culprit was a woman named Sandra, but Clark doubts that it’s her real name.

“I would say, have a bad day. But I think based on the fact that you are taking time out of your day to find random strangers’ fiancés and then send them screenshots of their TikToks of their wedding dress, that you’re probably already having a bad day,” Clark said.

Someone who holds a grudge

The crisis was averted, and Clark is about to get married in a week and a half. Nevertheless, the clip went viral on social media, with commenters speculating on the person’s identity.

One comment warned, “Someone hates you and is trying to ruin your wedding. Set up passwords with all of your vendors.” Others agreed, theorizing that the person who tried to send the photo must know Clark in real life.

Another TikTok user joked, “Which one of his ex girlfriends is it?” Someone else quipped, saying that Etsy witches should get involved. Clark did not disclose any more information about the woman named Sandra. Nevertheless, not everyone wishes joy and success for others, as one woman from New Jersey said when her ex-best friend rushed to the grocery store to see her at her absolute worst.

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Vanessa Esguerra (She/They) has been a Contributing Writer for The Mary Sue since 2023. She speaks three languages but still manages to get lost in the subways of Tokyo with her clunky Japanese. Fueled by iced coffee brewed from local cafés, she also regularly covers every possible topic under the sun while queuing for her next match in League of Legends.