A Stranger Wouldn’t Take No for an Answer — So This Georgia Woman Told Him to ‘Drink Some Milk’
It takes more than one 'no' for a man to back down.
While there is no shortage of people on dating apps, not everyone is looking for company—let alone a young woman who’s all alone, waiting for her ride to roll around the corner. When Kitti (@caffinatedkitti) was approached by a man who seemed to take no for an answer, she had to be extremely firm with him until her car arrived.
“So, this man approaches me while I’m waiting for my valet car to come around, because I had to valet park in this area,” Kitti told TikTok. It was unclear if she was approached late at night, but she was alone when the events supposedly happened. While she was waiting, a random man came up to greet her.
“What do you want?” she asked him immediately, already on guard. He proceeded to compliment her, saying, “You’re very beautiful.” But Kitti was uninterested in the man.
“I know. What do you want?” she reiterated. Kitti clarified that she already knew what the man wanted, and that he was clearly trying to make a pass at her. She explained that she often asks men who approach her “What do you want?” to cut to the chase and shorten the conversation, signalling she wasn’t interested in what they wanted to tell her.
“Well, I wanted to ask you to go eat with me because you’re very beautiful and I thought we could discuss that more,” the man supposedly replied. Kitti told him no, immediately rejecting his proposal. Not all women are looking for a happily ever after with a man, unlike this woman from New York City who found hers on Hinge. Kitti wanted to be left alone, even telling the man to “Go away now. Leave.”
She Had to Reject Him Over and Over for Him to Get the Memo
But according to Kitti, the man persisted. She commented, “It’s like Deltarune. There’s a little thing that pops up underneath for them that says ‘proceed,’ and they just hit proceed, proceed, proceed. And that’s how you end up in a weird route that ends up with you drowning in a lake.” Some women err on the side of caution, especially when they’re around a strange man. But even those who are cautious could face a dangerous situation like this woman from Chicago, who had to run from a persistent man into a steakhouse.
Instead of walking away, the man asked Kitti why she was rejecting him. She told him, “Because you’re still here.” Kitti was making the point that he wasn’t respectful of her wishes. Nevertheless, she said even expressing that didn’t do anything to deter the man. The man allegedly kept begging for attention until her car arrived, and that was the end of it. The man’s identity is unknown, and his side of the encounter hasn’t been verified.
“You’re dismissed. Go, bye,” she told the man. Kitti later said that she drew “a hard line in the sand” by sending him several signals. She claimed to have put out “rancid energy,” and yet, the man seemingly ignored her protests.
She Hated How Persistent He Was
“That tells me he has absolutely got coercion deeply ingrained in his psyche, that all he needs to do is keep pushing, and pushing, and pushing, and it does not matter,” she theorized. Kitti refused to be worn down by the interaction and stood firm with her boundaries. She talked about how men would often complain about not being able to find love because of how they’re rejected. To that, she gave a piece of advice.
“What you’re going to do is you’re going to drink some milk. You’re going to develop a bit of a backbone, and you’re going to learn how to take rejection without getting all butthurt about it. I mean, that tailbone is just so weak. Drink some milk!” she fumed.
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