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Woman Texts Man After His Stepchild Asks for a Loyalty Test. Next, Thing She Knows He is Calling Her Fresh Face:  ‘Asked My Age Twice’

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A woman who conducts loyalty tests for people who reach out to her uploaded a video of the “weirdest test” she has performed so far.

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In a series of screenshots with background music playing, @lilyloyaltytests highlighted the back-and-forth conversation she had with the stepdad of someone who contacted her to run the test, in an effort to gauge his loyalty to his wife. The first screenshot showed that @lilyloyaltytests was the first to text the man. As their conversation progressed, @lilyloyaltytests and the man discussed a lot, including their ages, preferences for the opposite gender (in terms of age), and more.

@lilyloyaltytests does a loyalty test of an individual’s stepdad

After someone reached out to @lilyloyaltytests, asking her to run a loyalty test on her stepfather, whom she thought was a creep, she got to work and messaged him with a simple “Hey” on social media (name not revealed). As part of her task, Lily told him she thought he was cool, to which he responded with “hey, thanks,” and then asked if he knew her. 

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When Lily replied that she found his profile while scrolling and mentioned she was bored in her dorm, he asked if she was in college and which one. Lily said she was a junior at ASU and 22 years old, and he mentioned that he had also attended the same college years ago and added that she looked younger than 22.

Later, when Lily said some people mistake her for being 19 based on her looks, the man told her he saw what they saw and called her “a fresh face” and pretty. To keep the conversation going, Lily said she found him cute, and he laughed and said thank you. 

Then he asked why she was texting him, and she said she liked older guys and thought he was mature. He asked how old she was thinking of when she said that, and she said she was looking for someone in their 40s. She asked if her preference seemed weird, and he said no. Later, he revealed he was 45 and asked if that was too old.

Lily then asked him out for coffee. He said he was flattered but said he was married. She confronted him about talking to her while married, and he claimed he was just being friendly. When Lily pointed out that he called her pretty and asked her age twice, he said he was just making conversation and that she was reading too much into it. They stopped talking after that, each going their own way, but Lily admits the whole thing was very “weird.”

People in @lilyloyaltytests’s comments think that the man was acting out of line

@lilyloyaltytests

this might be the weirdest test i have done so far ?? ( ? link in bio for a loyalty test ❣️ ) #loyaltytests #bfloyaltytest #loyaltytest #loyaltycheck #viral

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Some of the people in the comments on @lilyloyaltytests’s post believe the man mentioned in her video did not pass the loyalty test.

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User @1iny.y wrote, “him mentioning he was married was him asking if shes cool with that basically.” User @k_jungwonie said, “he was NOT being nice…he was testing the waters.”

Key observations after thirty years of loyalty tests

Honey Loyal has highlighted some key insights from over thirty years of infidelity research. It notes that approximately 16% of Americans who have been married at least once admit to having had extramarital sex during their lifetime, and this figure has remained stable over the past 30 years. There is a gender gap when it comes to extramarital affairs, with about 20% of men reporting it compared to 13% of women. An age reversal is observed in infidelity rates, with Americans aged 55 and older now reporting higher rates (20%) than those under 55 (14%). 76% of Americans believe that a secret emotional relationship also counts as infidelity in marriages, but major surveys usually only consider physical sex as a contributing factor.

(featured image: TikTok/@lilyloyaltytests)

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Sanchari Ghosh is a political writer for The Mary Sue who enjoys keeping up with what's going on in the world and sometimes reminding everyone what they should be talking about. She's been around for a few years, but still gets excited whenever she disentangles a complicated story. When she's not writing, she's likely sleeping, eating, daydreaming, or just hanging out with friends. Politics is her passion, but so is an amazing nap.