Woman reacts to the Snapchat location of a man she is seeing, then calls it one of her ‘most embarrassing moments’: ‘ I WOULD — block him no way’
Many people have embarrassing dating stories, but TikTok user @seagulllover thinks hers is the worst. Just two days ago, she posted a TikTok video sharing a mortifying experience she had with a guy she’s still seeing, by the way.
She recounts that, following her friend’s advice and hoping to turn a guy she was hanging out with into her boyfriend, she changed his name in her phone to “My Boyfriend” as part of a manifestation ritual. Everything was going smoothly until one day, she responded to his location on Snapchat. While her intention was innocent, because of the app’s built-in feature, he could see what her name was saved as on her phone, causing her great embarrassment.
TikTok user @seagulllover has a humiliating dating story
As mentioned earlier, TikTok user @seagulllover posted a video two days ago sharing that her experience with a guy was worse than many others. Explaining why she felt that way, she said there was a guy she was going out with and believed had potential, but she wasn’t sure if things would progress as she usually does not succeed in finding love. So, she reached out to her friend, who has had several boyfriends in the past and was with someone at the time. She asked her for tips, and learned that one thing she did was that before anyone would become her boyfriend, she would already consider him as such, almost like a form of manifestation. TikTok user @seagulllover also decided to try this technique and, as a first step, saved the guy she was dating’s name as “My boyfriend,” so that every time he called or texted, his name would appear as she had saved it, with the idea that this would eventually make it a reality.
But fate had other plans for @seagulllover. At one point in her video, she mentions that she and the guy she was seeing at the time used to interact a lot on Snapchat. While there’s nothing suspicious about that, the platform itself made things a bit chaotic for @seagulllover. Recalling the incident, which was probably a big blow to her self-confidence, she says that one time when the guy was driving home from the gym, she noticed his location on Snapchat and dropped an emoji reacting to it, which appeared in the chat. Later, he sent her a voice message laughing and asking @seagulllover why his number was saved as “My boyfriend” in her phone, since he could see it on his own phone. After sharing this story, @seagulllover mentions she’s still seeing the guy, which is a bit surprising because if she were in his place, she would have gotten a restraining order against her.
People have a lot to say about @seagulllover’s “embarrassing” story
TikTok user @seagulllover’s story has gained significant attention on the platform, leading many users to leave comments on her video. Many shared their opinions on what they would have done if they were in her position. User @notlvm82 wrote, “BRO OMG. I WOULD deadass block him no way.” User @secret.account0753 commented, “my serial lying ass would’ve quick changed everyone’s name on my bsf list to “my husband” “my baby daddy” and all that and sent him a screenshot saying it was some inside joke where i had to change everyone’s name on my bsf list to something like that.”
Numerous TikTok users also mentioned having gone through similar “embarrassing” dating experiences. User @lanadelreyforpresident2 said, “If it makes you feel better, one time I got a bloody nose while making out with a guy in the dark & I bled all over his face and then he made fun of me for it.” User @snoop.da.dogg shared, “okay so one time i was with a guy i was dating for 6 months and he was hispanic i’m white asl no spanish known, and one day “mi amor” called and he told me it means “my best friend”.. yeah and i stayed with him because i genuinely believed him.”
Dating looks very different in 2026
An article from the Institute for Family Studies dated February 10, 2026, reports the findings from the 2025 National Dating Landscape Survey, which sampled 5,275 unmarried young adults aged 22-35 across the U.S. The analysis indicates that the dating scene has faced a notable decline.
When asked about their dating frequency, only 31% of participants, including 26% of women and 26% of men, said they were actively dating (dating once a month or more). A majority of women (74%) and nearly two-thirds of men (64%) reported not dating or having dated only a few times in the past year. Additionally, just half (51%) of these young adults are interested in starting a relationship.
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