Boston woman looks up man online after kissing him at the bar the night before. Then she finds his wedding website: ‘You have to tell her’
A Boston woman meets a guy on a night out and they share a kiss. When she Googles him the next morning, she sees a link to his wedding website. Viewers debate whether she should tell his fiancée.
In a video with over 547,000 views, TikToker Grace (@graciegirl0424) sits in a circle with her roommates. They all look shocked as she pans around the room.
On-screen text reads, “When you’re stalking the guy you kissed at the bar last night and find his WEDDING WEBSITE.”
What Should You Do If You Find Out He’s Not Single?
In the comments of Grace’s viral video, women assure her she’s not alone in the jarring experience of finding out they had hooked up with someone in a relationship.
“Yup this happened to me once. I was totally distraught for the fiance,” one shares. “Of course, I told her. Turns out they had been together for 10 years (highschool sweethearts) and he went home to her that night.”
“Matched with a guy on tinder talked for a bit scheduled a little date but when I looked up his name just to check his wedding VIDEO popped up from the year before…..,” another says.
“This happened to me last week. except we never met in person but we matched on a Christian dating app. Did tell the wife,” a third adds.
Others suggest how she should break the news to his unsuspecting fiancée after finding the wedding website.
“Buy a gift from their registry and warn her in the signature,” one commenter writes.
A second says, “Send that hey girly text NOW.” While women in relationships dread the a “hey girly message,” many say they’d rather know before taking the next steps in their relationships.
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Have Other Exes Found Out Through a Wedding Website?
While wedding websites are an ultra-public way to announce you’re off the market, it seems like some men didn’t think that far before cheating on their fiancées.
In 2023, The New York Post reports that one woman found her boyfriend’s wedding website, discovering that she was actually the other woman.
Another TikToker says she broke up with her ex 3 years prior, only to find his wedding website years later that suggested he and his now-fiancée had been dating at the same time she was with him.
Commenters under Grace’s video share how wedding websites exposed their exes.
“Fun fact- this was me but the other end. Got the ‘hey girly’ message a month before the wedding but SAVED ME so please,” a woman writes.
“I’ve never had an original experience,” a second remarks.
The Mary Sue reached out to Grace via email and TikTok direct message for further comment. We will update the story when she replies.
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