Ohio Woman Didn’t Believe That Her Fiancé Doesn’t Flush the Toilet. And Then She Finds ‘Dookies’ Unflushed in Their Shared Home.

Nobody’s perfect, and everyone in a relationship would know that tolerance is key to making it last. It means loving people even if they turn into worms. But Kirsten (@lil_tachy) from Ohio told a story that proved that nobody should tolerate all their partner’s bad habits.

Kirsten made a shocking revelation on TikTok—her ex-fiancé does not wipe his bum. Even more surprising was that she didn’t leave immediately upon finding out. Social media had so many questions, so Kirsten decided to set the record straight by answering all of them in her clip.

“The first time this information was brought to my attention, I was living with my best friend, her boyfriend at the time, and my boyfriend at the time,” Kirsten explained. Her bestfriend pulled her aside one day and told Kirsten about an unsettling phenomenon happening in their shared home.

“Hey, I just wanted to let you know that we keep finding dookies in the toilet, unflushed, no toilet paper,” her bestfriend told her. She believed that Kirsten’s boyfriend—soon to be fiancé—was responsible for leaving surprises in the toilet all the time. Worse, she also believes that the man isn’t wiping his butt.

“At the time, I’m young, dumb, and I believed that I was in love and that I found the man I was going to spend the rest of my life with,” Kirsten said. Because her feelings for him were strong, the initial discovery didn’t seem to disturb her. Instead, Kirsten brushed it off, and she even accused her bestfriend’s boyfriend of being the one responsible for not flushing the toilet.

Will she still love him if he doesn’t flush the toilet?

“I don’t really think about it again until I get engaged to this man and we move into our own place together,” she recalled. This time, Kirsten got a full understanding of her fiance’s hygiene habits.

“But then I start finding out that he’s opting out of other forms of hygiene,” she observed. Kirsten noticed that his toothbrush wasn’t moved, the soaps in the shower were virtually untouched, and the towels also seemed unused unless she was the one showering.

Thankfully, Kirsten and her fiance ended their relationship. But surprisingly, it wasn’t hygiene issues that shattered the relationship.

“And then we break up because he almost punches me in the face, right?” She candidly mentioned. As if the man’s hygiene habits weren’t enough to make most people stay clear of him within a five-meter radius, he almost resorted to physical abuse. But finally, Kirsten was free, and after the breakup, she slowly came to terms with the truth that she’d seen with her own eyes. Days after the breakup, a call with her ex’s mother had confirmed everyone’s suspicions.

His mother exposed him

Kirsten started ranting to her ex’s mother, telling her about all the horrible things he’s done to her. The lady was supportive, telling Kirsten about how sorry she was that her son had caused her so much grief. She even thought that her son had changed for Kirsten, and she went on to confirm that they’d been having issues with him before, which is why they kicked him out.

And then somewhere in the conversation, her ex’s mother told her something unprompted—something she should’ve known from the start but still shocked her to hear.

“Kirsten, the man can’t even wipe his own ass,” her ex’s mother confirmed. Apparently, her ex had the same issue when he was living with his parents. They, too, would find poop unflushed in the toilet.

Kirsten had been told multiple times, and there were signs that he was unhygienic. But she didn’t know for sure until after they’d broken up.

“Sometimes, I’d wake up next to him and he’d smell like rotten chicken,” she said. Regardless, the relationship still went on for some time. Some people wear rose-tinted glasses, while others may have an inbuilt face mask. People make all sorts of excuses for love, but it should never come at the cost of health and safety.

(featured images: @lil_tachy)

Have a tip we should know? [email protected]