Woman marries Brazilian man after 3 months. It ends worse than expected. Now she’s warning Danielle, a fellow ‘San Francisco baddie’ in the same boat
Marrying someone after a short time is a huge gamble. Unfortunately, as TikToker Kari (@spaceghostkari) demonstrates, it doesn’t always work out.
What happened in her marriage?
In a viral video that has amassed 2.2 million views, an audibly upset Kari goes from room to room, showing viewers the wreckage of her home. Furniture is overturned, and possessions like suitcases, animal carriers, and clothes are strewn all over the floor.
As she walks around the home, she repeatedly calls for “Henri,” but there is no response.
Via the on-screen text, Kari makes it clear that her ex-husband is the one behind the mess.
“I also married a Brazilian man I met after three months,” she wrote. “Danielle Walter, please be careful. The vibes are rancid.”
“Signed, another San Francisco baddie,” she said.
The TikTok user then elaborated in the video description, sharing that this was from August 2023, when her ex trashed the home after she asked for a divorce.
“My ex-husband was abusive,” she added. “He choked me three times before I finally ended it.”
Kari didn’t immediately respond to The Mary Sue’s request for comment via TikTok comment and email.
@spaceghostkari This video is from August 2023 My ex husband was abusive. He choked me three times before I finally ended it. He went to jail once for choking me. When I finally asked for a divorce… he did this. @daniellewalter_ please be safe.
♬ original sound – mon mothma
What did commenters say?
Commenters were worried about Kari’s situation.
“A man with nothing will help you lose everything,” one wrote. “There needs to be a national DV registry,” another said. Meanwhile, a third added, “Any ladies watching this who don’t already know. Any man wanting to move very fast, i.e. move in together, get married, etc., is a HUGE red flag!”
A fourth echoed, “Stay so SO single my friends!” while a fifth admitted, “Looks like my rooom after my Brazilian ex.”
What happened next?
Several users in the comments also shared concern over Henri—the name that Kari was calling in the video.
In a follow-up, Kari confirmed that Henri was the name of one of her cats. Along with footage of them all cuddling with her, an on-screen caption read: “For folks concerned about my last TikTok, all 3 cats survived my ex destroying my house two years ago. Henrietta, Daniel, and Lulu are cuddling with me right now, don’t worry, but thank you for your concern.”
Who is Danielle Walter?
Known on TikTok as the “brunette Carrie Bradshaw,” Danielle Walter (@daniellewalter_) is a lifestyle influencer who primarily makes dating content.
She sparked concern after recently making a 21-part ‘docuseries’ that, in essence, charts her journey of becoming exclusive with her Brazilian boyfriend. The problem? They’ve only been together for approximately 3 to 4 months.
For many, this docuseries screamed ‘too much too soon.’ It flopped spectacularly. Some netizens claimed that the boyfriend exhibited “red flags,” while others questioned whether she was being “love-bombed” or used for clout and a green card.
At this pace, it’s being speculated that Walter is diving headfirst into a whirlwind engagement—but if Kari’s experience is anything to go by, it may not end as she wants it to.
Danielle didn’t immediately respond to The Mary Sue’s request for comment via TikTok comment and email.
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