: There are no spoilers for BBC America's Orphan Black
in this post, some adult language, and lots of good points.]
Recently, my husband and I burned through S1 of Orphan Black
, which, as promised by virtually the entire internet, was awesome. But in all the praise I’d seen for it, a line from one review in particular stuck in my mind. The reviewer noted that, although the protagonist, Sarah, is an unlikeable character, her grifter skills make her perfectly suited to unravelling the mystery in which she finds herself. And as this was a positive review, I kept that quote in mind when we started watching, sort of by way of prewarning myself: you maybe won’t like Sarah, but that’s OK.
But here’s the thing: I fucking loved
Sarah. I mean, I get what the reviewer was trying to say, in that she’s not always a sympathetic
character, but that’s not the same as her actually being unlikeable
. And the more I watched, the more I found myself thinking: why is this quality, the idea of likeability
, considered so important for women, but so optional for men – not just in real life, but in narrative?